Tuesday, November 13, 2007

Thought: How Can One Be So Naive and Pretensious All At The Same Time?


From what i hear in general, parents want the best for their children. They want them to be happy. That's great! But what happen when one IS happy and the parents try to break it to pieces? Can i get an answer to that? I probably would understand if say, the relationship is not working for... Say... 2months since it started, but what about those who have been together for 2,5 years? I mean, does that make sense?

Also, how Can One say something like ''Oh, that's nice you came to pick me up with the car.'' and the moment there is a fight, the sentence says something like that: ''don't think you can impress me by picking me up with the car of you know who!''
Does that make sense to you?

How can One's ego and image be So fat that what revolves around him is completely blocked by his ego? How Can an insult towards your beloved one make you change your mind? How Can it solve the problem at all?! How Can an assumption be made out of nothing that makes sense?

Yes, i won't deny that i Am talking about myself and my dad. I kind of need to put it down as i still wonder how one can be So cruel and hurtful wit his words and later on being capable of blaming me for not talking to him... (Again, does that make sense to you?)

Yes, i should have stayed home a bit more often before leaving. That's what triggered everything. Thus, i apologize on that one. Yet, in the other hand, things could have been so much easier and satisfying to everyone if i could have stayed at home WITH my partner of soon 3 years. Instead, my partner slept over one of my friend's place. Why? Cos i'm gay :-). Anyway, that's besides the point...

He claims that i will be alone when i'm older... But don't we all at the end?
If he thinks that i Am alone now, then what about him now? I think he's a very lonely guy who doesn't even have friends who WANT to spend time with him. Now i wonder why... Being the charmer, the 'intelligent scientist with big titles', the one making jokes to make people laugh so that he gets the attention from everyone... Yet, he still doesn't have any friends who would call him and ask him out for a walk, a drink, a swim or ANYthing. None. Thus, does the claim refer more to him or to me?